A sad little entry

More days than not, I think about the missing kids I read about and their parents who live another day not knowing where they are. I can not imagine the tension and the hole, and I hope I never have to feel it.

Then there are those who have lost a child to death, and even though I can't feel that pain, just feeling what I feel for them sinks me in my own sadness.

Even before I was a parent, I've already harbored such emotions. In the earliest of my adolescent years, I had already felt the urge that I need to help children in unfortunate situations. I haven't quite done much at all, but I'm working on it.

I do now believe my calling is in that department. Now that I have kids I have a stronger urge to protect them, to spare myself the lifetime depression from any bad incidents, and to get involved with organizing awareness that will fight child trafficking, abuse, murder.

Rear-facing carseats: INFO for parents

http://www.cnn.com/2011/HEALTH/03/21/car.seat.guidelines.parenting/index.html?hpt=Sbin

You want to talk to me about fast-paced?

Oftentimes, job postings always want an applicant who can face a fast-paced environment.

They must be talking to mothers. Specifically, mothers with two toddlers.

There is nothing faster-paced in this world than having two toddlers who are in their own separate worlds, while there is only one mom. When one kid needs a diaper change, the other kid is climbing up on something. When the other kid needs a new diaper, the other one is pouring out a box of toys to add to the mess of toys already on the floor.

When I go to make my coffee, there will be screaming. Or something else. But it takes about 10 minutes or so to make instant coffee, and in those 10 minutes, I've already settled 4 different issues.

I give it up to moms who are taking care of 3 toddlers, or 4, or you know, lots of kids by themselves. I'm not trying to get on that level. 2 are enough for me, and yes, it's stressful work.

Mind you...that's just the stress at home. I'm a working mom. I come home from 9 hours of being at work, to a house full of love and mess.

Kiddie updates

I don't think I've been keeping this blog truly updated at all. Don't blame me... blame, uh, time is too fast!!

In a nutshell, here are the kids' updates.

Aubrey: had a recent bad week with getting one of her fingers cut on an exercise bike, got sick with a fever, loves to sing so much (favorite song is "Tomorrow" from Annie), eats like a slob, loves to eat, loves to dance, gets annoyed with her big brother

Gerard: getting in trouble a lot, also got sick, developed a very bad spoiled habit (tell him to go to time out, and he'll tell YOU to go to time out... or, tell him to stop asking for cookies and he'll tell YOU to leave/go to work/go away)

All is well in camp Hernandez. Except for mama, who is having a real hard time keeping the house immaculate due to logging in more work hours than usual and adding more to the plate with her hobbies.

Friends to grow with

Well, that was a lot of fun.

Tonight was my friends' son's birthday, and it was also the first time I've seen some old friends in a while.

These were the cool cats I used to see almost every weekend when we were in our 20s. Now, we only see each other during our kids' birthdays or special occasions. Whereas before, we were talking about guitars and drums and concerts, now we're giving each other advice on brushing teeth and how to feed toddlers.

It's amazing when your friends also grow with you into parenthood. Just one of life's wonderful gifts.

Legoland with the brats

This past weekend, we took the kids to Legoland. This was Gerard's second trip to the area, but both his and Aubrey's first times there.

I will say that the place is much more worth going when the kids are bigger. At the same time, we wouldn't have had time to get to every ride in one day. We had just enough time in the day to drop by all the age-appropriate attractions for them.

We had a real fun time. Gerard became a crybaby on a couple of attractions. Aubrey enjoyed the only 2 rides she was able to get on, and poor babygirl also bled from the mouth at the Duplo playground from bumping it.

The rides to and from weren't the smoothest. On our way there, we left on Saturday afternoon and we were mostly met with snow and rain. On our way out, it was all sunny but both kids seemed brattier than ever. Whatever Gerard had, Aubrey wanted too. And then Gerard wanted whatever Aubrey had as well. They cried and whined, and we had vomiting to take care of, but all in all, we got home in one whole piece.

I would totally do it again.

Walking

It is with much pride and joy that we announce, after 14 months since birth, that Aubrey is finally walking! While we didn't invest in much time teaching her how to walk, I got a little concerned that at 12 months, she wasn't picking it up on her own nor was she showing signs that she wanted to walk. We gave her more time to do it naturally, but she relied too much on crawling.

We then began to encourage her to walk more, and she much preferred to try with her indoor shoes on. Then one morning at the Farmer's Market, I let her walk while holding my hand. She enjoyed walking that she got mad when I picked her up, and when her brother tried to hold her hand. Later that day, we took her to the Marina park, and there, she really went off at it. She walked long distances on her own, and since then, she's been more courageous about walking.

Go Aubrey!